Monday, 5 October 2015

Day 61 - Sunday, October 4th

What made me smile today?

  • Baby walking around in the park
  • Baby being a little bit bossy and insisting on Daddy using a particular colour for his colouring page
  • Baby happily playing by himself after lunch, which gave me enough time to wash the dishes

    What triggered me today?

    This was a big one today :( I always dread Sundays as I’m always very busy, even more so than normal, and this time I let it get to me. I was pretty grumpy most of the morning. I ended up raising my voice at Baby while I was tidying up after breakfast, when he really hadn’t done anything wrong (but I was even grumpier by that point as he was very messy during breakfast and decided he didn’t want to eat his porridge, I suspect because he prefers smooth porridge over lumpy porridge). And I snapped at him afterwards because he was insistently pointing at something and I had no idea what he was pointing at. I need to figure out how to not get so worked up about the mountain of things I need to do on Sundays.

    What would I have done differently today?

    I would have tried harder to not let my grumpiness affect Baby.

    What will I try to do tomorrow?

    Remember voice, be gentle, triggers, limits.

    What am I grateful for?

    Baby sleeping soundly meaning I was able to finish watching The Avengers (Age of Ultron). Although this also meant that I went to sleep far too late, yet again. Also, tooth brushing for Baby is now no longer full of tears… and hopefully I can get it to stay that way.
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